But y on earth do i want to be in this group. Well they are pretty cool and are more into alcohol then some members of my normal group. But mostly because that group has Tom. Tom leaves in less than a year to Canada where i might not ever see him again. Way back in early AS i saw that he was gonna move to this john Shields group and that he was gonna see r group a lot less. He wanted to join this group for the reasons i said earlier and also cause that group had Becky.
So I could of stayed just with my normal group and loose Tom. I would of lost Tom as he no longer likes explorers, hardly ever visits my normal group and eventually my gym membership will run out. This would all result with me seeing him about once a week. And i don't want to waste this last yr i have with Tom hence i decided to try to get in this group.
I've done quite well. There are 7 members of this group and 4 of them think I'm 'in the group'.
Tom: no explanation needed we've been friends for yonks
Jen: Again we've been friends for ages and she invited me to her birthday barbecue thing
Becky: Know her for longer then Tom and Jen. Also I've been invited to her 18th
Katie H: Well I was invited to Barn dancing which she organizes but that was because someone else dropped out. But I've been invited to the next one :):)
Of couse i thought that after barn dancing everyone in this group would invite me to everything and that i would be in the group. that's not true for the rest of the group like:
Adam: He's birthday is next wkend and I don't think I'm invited but I'll live
Andrew: well he basically told me at barn dancing that i wasn't gonna be invited to his birthday/ new yr.
Katie O: We've been friends for a while but we've had a few failings out.
So I'm over half way but all my work isn't done.
BYE
GO ROSS! I'm Cheering for ya! WE NEED TO MEET UP SOMETIME
ReplyDeleteActually, you shouldn't have to work to be in a group of friends. It's kinda wrong.
ReplyDeleteOh my days Ross.
ReplyDeleteI just read this blog, and I so so so agree with George!
I am not surprised you are upset about Tom leaving for Canada, but he needs to spend as much time as he can with Becky, considering thay are SOUL MATES :)
He is not replacing you with Becky.
I feel bad because our group is quite couple-y, and it can be quite awkward for people who aren't in a couple if they want to hang with us.
If Tom's ditched Explorers, maybe hes just grown out of it, or not enjoying it anymore.
Let him know that you miss him (same applies with George - HAVE GEORGE'S BABIES, haha!)
and it shouldn't be such a big effort to hang out with us!
I barely ever even see you! But you shouldn't have to choose between PW buddies and JS buddies (whoa, you are too popular for your own good!)
But visit. WE MISS YOU.
dude...
ReplyDeleteyour blogs are getting waaaaaaaaay too deep and brooding.
but i totally get what you mean with most of that. but yeah, it shouldn't be work to hang out with them... cause let's face it, they obviously love you anyways.
and yeah, you don't have to choose between people. just spend time with whoever the hell you feel like. have fun.
aaaaaaaalex xoxo